That was unexpected

Two odd things happened today that I in no way expected.

First, I had told my ex-husband that Dave and I have broken up. He had called me on the way home from a dumping so it was kind of tit for tat. I do suppose it's odd to most people but that's just how he and I roll. Later, he sent an ecard with his genuine sympathy for things not working out. Never saw THAT coming.

Second, I am so oddly okay with it. It might be too much to say that I'm relieved because that's not exactly it. I told him that in the last few months he's not seemed like himself. He's made me feel nervous and edgy. It's very true. It's been a long few weeks of trying to sort through feelings and mixed messages.

I can honestly say that I am excited about next year and having time to myself and to focus on nothing but me. I am going to be selfish as hell. I am in the works with a number of New Years Resolutions, which I will certainly be posting next week, so stay tuned. All I can say is that it'll be good.